Amy Alkon and I discuss women who accidentally get pregnant on purpose and whether men have any rights in this situation at all in this week's segment on PJTV.
This is probably the greatest comment ever:
Trust said...@Mary: "I mean really, what so many of you men and helen too, are finding so unfair: the idea that the man has to be responsible for his actions"
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No, what we are finding so unfair is that women are not being held responsible for their actions. In fact, many are rewarded richly for deceit and for trashing marriages and tearing apart their families.
Let's leave the taxpayer out of this. That's a problem with socialism that makes it worse. Illegitimacy and divorce would not be so out of control right now if the laws didn't make them so profitable at the expense of taxpayers.
Of course, I think it is unrealistic that we could let a man off the hook because of a woman's deceit. Women will then just lie about the deceit and it will be unprovable. In fact, it should speak volumes that they feel comfortable freely admitting their lies without shame or fear.
Throughout history, in any relationship, the unreasonable side is often the side that has the power. They don't compromise, don't put forth as much effort. And laws have so empowered women, and men are victimized in the process, as are the children who don't have good fathers around.
My suggested solution is not to let men off the hook, it is to make things fair. Wives initiate 75% of divorces--that would change if they knew there was a 50/50 chance the father would get custody, if there was a 50/50 chance they would have child support, and if there wasn't a paid for house and a big chunk of cash and alimony for them and their new boyfriends to live on. Even a 60/40 chance for that matter.
If we want to argue that "it takes two" and that the father is equally responsible, perhaps fathers of "oops i'm pregnant" children should have a better shot at custody. How many women would trick men in to concieving if they knew there was even a 30 or 40, let alone 50 percent chance that it would be the man who got custody, perhaps even child support. After all, both are responsible and the goal is equality, right?
Note, I'm not saying let either side off the hook, and i'm not saying make women fully responsible. I'm just saying make it equal. I have a feeling many feminists wouldn't like true equality.
And I'll just say it--your 90 second pre-ejaculation (stupid and immature) comment speaks volumes for your bias. What about that orgasms women get? Oh, I forgot. You only care to take cheap shots at men. It's worse for a guy to enjoy an orgasm than for the woman to INTENTIONALLY tunr his life upside down by lying about her tubes tied.
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